"My daddy likes you!"
The words of a small boy at my work. He was joking with his dad, and told me this after his dad told my manager that his son wanted to work with us and wear the aprons as well. It was funny, but I just felt embarrassed and just thought "holy shit where's the mom before she falcon punches me!"
This reminds me of a "friend" or acquaintance or rather a classmate from high school...idk what to call him anymore. I'll go with classmate. So, I found out that he actually really did like me back in high school sometime ago. I thought it was just some joke, or rather I'm just dense. He was a popular soccer player and actually really nice. He was nice to chat with and play speed (a card game) with him. I never really knew he had any interest in me until a friend of ours passed away. The next day he arrived high on cocaine to school. My friends laughed at him and his stupidity. I scolded them, and I scolded him. I had no right to decide what he did with his life or what had control over what they thought, but I wasn't in the mood of losing another friend because of something so stupid. So, I became selfish and gave them a piece of my mind without really caring what they thought. I guess he got a bit upset. He stopped talking to me. He started going out with I don't how many girls. I just remember my friends saying he was changing girls like changing his underwear. I did hear a rumor that he might have liked me, but I didn't really payed much attention. After a few years, I saw him again in a graduation ceremony of I think class of 2008 or 2009 (not sure). I got the most unexpected thing told to me. My friend and I heard him clearly shout out like halfway through the parking lot, "Next time I see you, I'm going to bring an engagement ring for you." Wtf! Fast forward to ~2 years ago, he gets a FB, appears to be married with a child, and he adds my friends except me, and after peer pressure from my friends and my weakness, I send a friend request to him even though my guts were horribly screaming 'NOoOOoOo!!' I sent the usual comment of 'Hey how've you been...etc etc.' no response for a week and then suddenly a response that made me think/feel, "man what have I done."
The point I wanted to reach was that my friend told me he had asked them to say hi to everyone from school and especially a special hi to me since he still liked me. Well with this, I stopped logging in regularly, didn't want to email him anymore (he had sent me an email about what he saw at Japan. I kinda felt bad about it after I found out about this), and just not speak to him (he himself stop speaking to me since that last email). I sometimes think this is childish, but it just feels wrong. It IS wrong. Thinking that this guy has no respect for his wife or his child just makes me angry. WTF is he thinking! Seriously idk. I kinda feel bad because I think back to that gut feeling of, 'you shouldn't contact him', and think maybe he didn't want to add me because he didn't want to bring back any old memories, and I as an idiot added him. Idk. I seriously don't know, but I'm certain I don't want to be involved in any family problems...and now that I mention it, he had an argument with his wife through fb and he temporarily shut down his account after our one and only messaging. idk if our messaging was the cause or not, but I hope not. *sigh* I shouldn't have contacted you, and I'm sorry but I really don't want to speak with you as we used to in high school. I'm sorry my old classmate, but I really hope you can be happy with your family and wish the best :).
and all of these messy thoughts were trying to overcome me during my job. Hell no! There are priorities you must follow my dear self. You may vent later.
*sigh* all because of that little boy... (╯°□°）╯︵ ┻━┻
The words of a small boy at my work. He was joking with his dad, and told me this after his dad told my manager that his son wanted to work with us and wear the aprons as well. It was funny, but I just felt embarrassed and just thought "holy shit where's the mom before she falcon punches me!"
This reminds me of a "friend" or acquaintance or rather a classmate from high school...idk what to call him anymore. I'll go with classmate. So, I found out that he actually really did like me back in high school sometime ago. I thought it was just some joke, or rather I'm just dense. He was a popular soccer player and actually really nice. He was nice to chat with and play speed (a card game) with him. I never really knew he had any interest in me until a friend of ours passed away. The next day he arrived high on cocaine to school. My friends laughed at him and his stupidity. I scolded them, and I scolded him. I had no right to decide what he did with his life or what had control over what they thought, but I wasn't in the mood of losing another friend because of something so stupid. So, I became selfish and gave them a piece of my mind without really caring what they thought. I guess he got a bit upset. He stopped talking to me. He started going out with I don't how many girls. I just remember my friends saying he was changing girls like changing his underwear. I did hear a rumor that he might have liked me, but I didn't really payed much attention. After a few years, I saw him again in a graduation ceremony of I think class of 2008 or 2009 (not sure). I got the most unexpected thing told to me. My friend and I heard him clearly shout out like halfway through the parking lot, "Next time I see you, I'm going to bring an engagement ring for you." Wtf! Fast forward to ~2 years ago, he gets a FB, appears to be married with a child, and he adds my friends except me, and after peer pressure from my friends and my weakness, I send a friend request to him even though my guts were horribly screaming 'NOoOOoOo!!' I sent the usual comment of 'Hey how've you been...etc etc.' no response for a week and then suddenly a response that made me think/feel, "man what have I done."
The point I wanted to reach was that my friend told me he had asked them to say hi to everyone from school and especially a special hi to me since he still liked me. Well with this, I stopped logging in regularly, didn't want to email him anymore (he had sent me an email about what he saw at Japan. I kinda felt bad about it after I found out about this), and just not speak to him (he himself stop speaking to me since that last email). I sometimes think this is childish, but it just feels wrong. It IS wrong. Thinking that this guy has no respect for his wife or his child just makes me angry. WTF is he thinking! Seriously idk. I kinda feel bad because I think back to that gut feeling of, 'you shouldn't contact him', and think maybe he didn't want to add me because he didn't want to bring back any old memories, and I as an idiot added him. Idk. I seriously don't know, but I'm certain I don't want to be involved in any family problems...and now that I mention it, he had an argument with his wife through fb and he temporarily shut down his account after our one and only messaging. idk if our messaging was the cause or not, but I hope not. *sigh* I shouldn't have contacted you, and I'm sorry but I really don't want to speak with you as we used to in high school. I'm sorry my old classmate, but I really hope you can be happy with your family and wish the best :).
and all of these messy thoughts were trying to overcome me during my job. Hell no! There are priorities you must follow my dear self. You may vent later.
*sigh* all because of that little boy... (╯°□°）╯︵ ┻━┻
